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A question for my older-than-myself flisters.
Does the whole love/attraction/mate thing get easier? Is it because of age or experience?
I'm young, I know. It's just that the question strikes me every so often. I'm just so disasterous in this area of my life. I'm just wondering if maybe I'm jinxed or cursed or something. Or is it pretty typical that you crash and burn and fall before you can finally get it right?
FYI: This actually isn't in regards to Matt.
Does the whole love/attraction/mate thing get easier? Is it because of age or experience?
I'm young, I know. It's just that the question strikes me every so often. I'm just so disasterous in this area of my life. I'm just wondering if maybe I'm jinxed or cursed or something. Or is it pretty typical that you crash and burn and fall before you can finally get it right?
FYI: This actually isn't in regards to Matt.
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And you know what happened? When I wasn't looking/worrying/stressing/fretting over it - is when IT happened.
Just Like Tab' said, you don't find whateverthefuck at age eighteen. Just learn from your experiences, don't ever regret trying and one day, when you least expect it, you'll find it. Also like she said, there is no perfect romantic love. It does take work, and sometimes it hurts. As long as it isn't HARMFUL or ABUSIVE to one party, the ups and downs are normal. Disagreements are life.
Patience, my young friend! :)