Nope not just you. Did you ever read Briget Jones and her rant against the smuggly marrieds? Most of the time I can either ignore or brush it off, but every now and then it's like "Where's MY fella?" Focus on the happy, or the angsty Spander (I'm greedy that way) 'kay, think I'm upto about a quarter's worth of unsolicited commentary here *shrug*