have you never written in a journal when you were unhappy about something? even a paper journal? because, you know, it often helps to sort out ones feelings and maybe get a little bit of feedback. sometimes, even that doesnt help so much because you realise 'wow. this situation is bloody ridiculous and far beyond help, so why even bother saying anything and starting drama.' honestly, if you dont like what you read, you DONT have to read it. thats one of the wonderful things about the internet. you have easy access to peoples thoughts and you can just as easily choose not to examine them. maybe things could have or should have been handled differently, but they werent. there was nothing dramatic about this post and certainly it was 'highly dramatized' as it was simply a brief summary oh how he was feeling at the moment. and if youre going to mention him writing about it in his livejournal as a negative point to how he handled it, it seems awfully silly to comment here and not just mention it to him the next time you see him. or maybe even take the time to call him up and try to get him to talk about it and see what exactly it was that was bugging him. i mean, i highly doubt you were holding his hand all night and know exactly what happened and what did not.
im quite aware that this isnt my business, and im quite aware that this is probably not appreciated, but oh well. this comment has managed to irritate me in a huge way and i know if something like this was left in MY journal, heads would roll. but thats just me and im not the nicest person ever.
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Re: Burning Bridges
Date: 2005-10-10 02:58 pm (UTC)im quite aware that this isnt my business, and im quite aware that this is probably not appreciated, but oh well. this comment has managed to irritate me in a huge way and i know if something like this was left in MY journal, heads would roll. but thats just me and im not the nicest person ever.