Life's Mysteries

A question for my older-than-myself flisters.

Does the whole love/attraction/mate thing get easier? Is it because of age or experience?

I'm young, I know. It's just that the question strikes me every so often. I'm just so disasterous in this area of my life. I'm just wondering if maybe I'm jinxed or cursed or something. Or is it pretty typical that you crash and burn and fall before you can finally get it right?

FYI: This actually isn't in regards to Matt.