I'm so sorry about all the unhappiness you're going through. I've only today caught up with your LJ and am very, very sad to hear about Tom. Perhaps he's just too young? I know I would have run screaming from the thought of settling down with just one person when I was that age. Go and find yourself a rich, older man who can treat you to the good things in life - you deserve to be pampered!
In this situation you've just got to hang on to the positive things (I heard that phrase somewhere; doesn't work for me but beat it around a bit to get it working for you).
I'm very pleased to hear about the new job - at long last, after all the make-do jobs, something that is real for you.
In the meantime, grab hold of a copy of the book in my icon. It's damned good, and sexy, and you'll enjoy it. *lots of love and hugs*
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I'm so sorry about all the unhappiness you're going through. I've only today caught up with your LJ and am very, very sad to hear about Tom. Perhaps he's just too young? I know I would have run screaming from the thought of settling down with just one person when I was that age. Go and find yourself a rich, older man who can treat you to the good things in life - you deserve to be pampered!
In this situation you've just got to hang on to the positive things (I heard that phrase somewhere; doesn't work for me but beat it around a bit to get it working for you).
I'm very pleased to hear about the new job - at long last, after all the make-do jobs, something that is real for you.
In the meantime, grab hold of a copy of the book in my icon. It's damned good, and sexy, and you'll enjoy it.
*lots of love and hugs*