The only downside is that I'll have to give up iRi. WHAT! But you love working there! Your mother didn't want you to move home, even when you didn't think you were going to be able to happy staying in Chicago. She is not going to want you to give up a job you enjoy and is what you want to do with your life just so you can make more money at a job you hate and send some home. I really don't think that's a good idea. I mean, if you think she's been feeling bad now, I don't think that would compare to how she'd feel if she thought she made you give up this job. I know you want to help, but I really don't think this is the way to do it.
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WHAT! But you love working there! Your mother didn't want you to move home, even when you didn't think you were going to be able to happy staying in Chicago. She is not going to want you to give up a job you enjoy and is what you want to do with your life just so you can make more money at a job you hate and send some home. I really don't think that's a good idea. I mean, if you think she's been feeling bad now, I don't think that would compare to how she'd feel if she thought she made you give up this job. I know you want to help, but I really don't think this is the way to do it.