Not just gay drama, honey. I've seen this stuff go on with het 'ships and it's no better and no less hurtful. Pointless and stupid are exactly the right words.

I think you have to be the better man, here. Be calm, cool and logical and don't let on how very hurt you are. It gives too much ammunition to hurt you again if it's perceived as a fun time to be had by some mean people.

Maybe it was just a stupid prank and a bad miscalculation by some people who really do care about you. I'll bet there are some guilty consciences all around at the moment, and quite right too. Mikey sounds sweet, and Phillip didn't deliberately screw you over. It's not all bad.

*hugs*