Actually the whole sexual abuse thing is still a huge controversy - it became an issue back in the late 70's and early 80's, and it just keeps getting fueled. A lot of people have been sold on the idea that they could have been abused but are repressing it - implantation of false memories is a HUGE deal. Anyway, to make a long story short, it is a controversial branch of psychology :)

Yay about the scarf!!! Can't wait to see it and feel it and rub it...I mean, yay! *g*