Yep; we are in marriage counseling (which makes it sound like we were going to get divorced or something, but we weren't). A team of two therapists sees us, one of which is assigned to each of us. Sometimes we have solo sessions and sometimes all four of us meet together.

It was a lot of work to get to that point. And sometimes I do still resent that it takes us being there for him to say things I feel like he should be able to tell me at home or when they happen, but we are making progress. Yay!!! Psychology is real *vbg*