2007-06-25

synapticjava: (wings)
2007-06-25 10:24 am

Had my moments

Kinda broke down and told my mom last night about Frank and I. She read an IM window my sister had open between her and I, and called to ask why I've been down. So I told her what happened. She said she was really sorry and that she really likes him. Then she started giving me relationship advice. This is not something I'm used to. My mom & talking about relationships - it's just never happened before. It was really odd and weird. A little awkward for both of us. But then she said something that kinda flipped my lid - "just trust me, I have a feeling that if you guys are friends for a while, he'll realize that he does love you and you'll get back together. just give it time. you guys rushed so fast into this you weren't watching where you were going. but now you know, so give it time for both of you to get your bearings. just trust me. i have a feeling it'll all work out." I suspect she said this to make me feel better - which doesn't really work - but I just think it's weird. Is that in the "mom's handbook?"

I guess it's good that we talk about this stuff now. It just seems kinda...odd?

At any rate, I don't have to pretend or lie anymore, which is good.