He never told me how I could get ahold of him. It's a two-way thing. No, it's not your job to tell me. But I would think that a "friend" would at least think about it. Don't put this on me. You knew I wanted to see him. I'm not trying to make you feel bad, but I do have to question motives, and not just yours. And don't tell me to chill out. You don't have that right anymore.